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Sunday 28 December 2014

Tips of Being Awesome #2

Assalamualaikum!

Yes let's continue with the next tips of being awesome!

Tips of Being Awesome #2: Always be patient, keep your cool.


To be really patient is not easy, but never is impossible.
All we need is practice.
Whenever you feel really angry, just take a deep breath and let it go. Remind yourself of the rewards that you will earn by being patient, remind yourself that you are more than that, remind yourself that you are awesome.
The real patience is at the first moment of anger, not after we have exploded. Keep on practicing this habit until you feel perfectly calm at the first moment of anger.

We tend to be easily angry towards family members compared to the outsiders. It's very common.
 The prophet said, "The best among you is the best to their family, and I am the best one to my family." [An authentic hadith reported by Imams At-Tirmithi, Ibn Hibban, and Ibn Majah]
We should start being patience with our family members first. When your mother nag, be patient. When your younger brother break your stuffs, be patient. When your sister finish up your favourite cookies, be patient.

It's not easy yes I know.
But practice make perfect, peeps!

Oh another thing is, by not scolding people we'll save up a lot of energy. And that energy can definitely be used for the solution of the problem that is causing our anger.

Let's practice this to be an awesome muslim!
May Allah ease, ameen.




Wednesday 10 December 2014

Tips of Being Awesome #1

Assalamualaikum!

Here I'll list up the habits that is awesome to be practiced to become someone awesome.
All these tips are gathered from multiple sources; tazkirah, motivational books, talks, articles etc. I am putting them here as a suggestion for you to practice and also as a reminder for myself, innsyaa Allah.

Okay let's start!

Tips of Being Awesome #1: Always have a smiling face.


One of the way to have a smiling face is by recalling those funny happy moments. Your smile will look more genuine by doing this.

I read from an article saying that if you want to find your future spouse, looks for someone who smiles a lot. It shows that they are positive.

By smiling, people will rarely scold you. Imagine someone hit your car. Then that person get out from his car with a very big genuine smile on his face, apologizing to you. I'm pretty sure instead of scolding him, your mouth will automatically smile back at him. Well, smile is contagious you know.

Let's have a smiling face from now onwards!