Tips of Being Awesome #2

Assalamualaikum!

Yes let's continue with the next tips of being awesome!

Tips of Being Awesome #2: Always be patient, keep your cool.

To be really patient is not easy, but never is impossible.
All we need is practice.
Whenever you feel really angry, just take a deep breath and let it go. Remind yourself of the rewards that you will earn by being patient, remind yourself that you are more than that, remind yourself that you are awesome.
The real patience is at the first moment of anger, not after we have exploded. Keep on practicing this habit until you feel perfectly calm at the first moment of anger.

We tend to be easily angry towards family members compared to the outsiders. It's very common.
 The prophet said, "The best among you is the best to their family, and I am the best one to my family." [An authentic hadith reported by Imams At-Tirmithi, Ibn Hibban, and Ibn Majah]
We should start being patience with our family members first. When your mother nag, be patient. When your younger brother break your stuffs, be patient. When your sister finish up your favourite cookies, be patient.

It's not easy yes I know.
But practice make perfect, peeps!

Oh another thing is, by not scolding people we'll save up a lot of energy. And that energy can definitely be used for the solution of the problem that is causing our anger.

Let's practice this to be an awesome muslim!
May Allah ease, ameen.

Tips of Being Awesome #1

Assalamualaikum!

Here I'll list up the habits that is awesome to be practiced to become someone awesome.

All these tips are gathered from multiple sources; tazkirah, motivational books, talks, articles etc. I am putting them here as a suggestion for you to practice and also as a reminder for myself, innsyaa Allah.

Okay let's start!

Tips of Being Awesome #1: Always have a smiling face.

One of the way to have a smiling face is by recalling those funny happy moments. Your smile will look more genuine by doing this.

I read from an article saying that if you want to find your future spouse, looks for someone who smiles a lot. It shows that they are positive.

By smiling, people will rarely scold you. Imagine someone hit your car. Then that person get out from his car with a very big genuine smile on his face, apologizing to you. I'm pretty sure instead of scolding him, your mouth will automatically smile back at him. Well, smile is contagious you know.

Let's have a smiling face from now onwards!

Who gets Allah's Mercy?

"Who gets Allah's Mercy?" By Nouman Ali Khan (youtube).

Surah Furqan (63-77)

Ibadurrahman (the servant of The Most Merciful-those who gets Allah's mercy, Allah's love) is someone with any of these criterias:

1. When the ignorant address them harshly, they say word of peace
-qooluu salama, speak calmly
-controlling anger
2. Qiyamullail
3. Does not want any part of hell fire, temporary or forever
4. Spending responsibly
-not excessively even affordable
-not sparingly
5. Do not call other than Allah as god
6. Do not kill another soul which Allah has forbidden
7. Do not commit zina
8. Seek true forgiveness, believe and do righteous work after committing sin
*if your sin is no big deal to you, then they are big deal to Allah. But if your sin is a big deal for you, then they are a small problem for Allah.
9. Never witness useless companion
-do not hang out in a useless gathering
-do not embarrass them, but do not participate
-leave them in a dignified way
-if not, this small sin will lead to more sin
10. When being reminded of the verses of their Lord, they didn't pass over them deaf and blind
11. Pray, "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous"

☆ 25:75: "Those will be awarded the Chamber for what they patiently endured, and they will received therein with greetings and [words of] peace."
☆ 25:76: "Abiding eternally therein. Good is the settlement and residence."

Allah Cures The Heart

A mukmin
A believer
Their concern every single day is on how to please Allah
They sleep the best sleep
They wake up the best
They eat the best
Their heart is the best
Their comfort is the best

When you please Allah,
Allah puts happiness in your heart
Allah makes you content
Allah brings you satisfaction
Allah will make you from amongst those who are happy
Allah will relief your stress
Allah will take away your depression
Allah will make you concern at matters that are worthy to be concerned

Our only way of happiness is to please Allah

Turn to Allah and Allah will turn to you
Be with Allah and Allah will be with you
Rely on Allah and Allah will give you everything.

Real Love

Searching for real love is hard.
Found.
Maintaining real love is even harder.
Struggling.
The only reason is to be in real love forever.
To die with true love in the whole heart, body and soul.
So we struggle.
Happily struggling.
It's awesome, when whatever is to be done for The True Lover.

#Pray hard.
May Allah bless our life in this world and in the hereafter.
Guide us along the way.
With His blessing  and love, grant us His jannah.
Ameen.